True Essence - Latest Comments

Re: Henna May Be a Winner

Nikki — Tue, 28 May 2013 12:20:12 -0000

Great info. Your hair looks great. Can't wait to get started.

Re: About True Essence

arial — Mon, 20 May 2013 22:38:52 -0000

I love your blog!

Re: A Deadly Lie

truthseeker411 — Mon, 29 Apr 2013 21:18:12 -0000

Lol! He needed his butt beat!! Seriously, I'm glad you didn't snap either. No human being is worth going to jail over. I'm glad you read my post and gave feedback!

Re: A Deadly Lie

Kelly McLeod — Mon, 29 Apr 2013 13:03:26 -0000

I was in the same situation, the only difference is that I would never kill someone, the other woman is innocent, it's the man that needs a bullet in his butt!! I was in a serious relationship for 5 yrs and this person told me & my family that he wanted to marry me. Labor Day weekend of of 2011 I found out that he got married July of 2010 & dated & lead me on the whole time! Ouch!! I didn't want to kill him but I wanted him to hurt like I was, I did jump on him & kicked his A##!! LOL!! On a serious note this could have turned out like the Crawley case, thank god I love myself & didn't snap, nothing is worth you spending the rest of your life in jail!!

Re: A Deadly Lie

truthseeker411 — Sun, 28 Apr 2013 20:17:14 -0000

Thank you for reading! I'm not sure. I bet they have thought about it. It's such a sad situation.

Re: A Deadly Lie

Rosean — Sun, 28 Apr 2013 18:22:04 -0000

I just saw this episode on the ID channnel and wa also intrigued by the events of this case. I wonder if the family of the murdered woman would ever consider suing that police officer

Re: It’s Complicated….Time to Re-Examine the Relationship

truthseeker411 — Sat, 13 Apr 2013 00:25:25 -0000

Thank you! :-)

Re: It’s Complicated….Time to Re-Examine the Relationship

happenstance — Fri, 12 Apr 2013 21:00:09 -0000

Loved this!

Re: About True Essence

truthseeker411 — Fri, 08 Mar 2013 02:38:53 -0000

Thank you so much! You're right but one thing that complicates it is that we have different truths about love.

Re: About True Essence

TheGirl — Thu, 07 Mar 2013 22:18:27 -0000

Great blog TruthSeeker, we are all looking for the truth about love!

Re: Friends With Benefits vs Cut Buddies

truthseeker411 — Thu, 21 Feb 2013 12:17:12 -0000

Interesting assessment! Everyone has a different vantage point where this topic is concerned. Thanks for sharing!

Re: Friends With Benefits vs Cut Buddies

Angelz — Thu, 21 Feb 2013 12:14:00 -0000

fwb cut buddies, etc. have all the same rule. Have hookup(w/e that is) and go HOME. Don't linger, don't date, don't kiss, don't do any of that. Once you do you muddy the waters, it becomes something more. Maybe people are afraid of labels, but i know for me if I sleep wit a man and no one else we're dating no matter what HE says. Cause me, I have 0 man friends and don't want any. we weren't even friends before the hookups so what do ya call that? Men and women stop wit this. Either you're lovers or you're friends. No in-between

Re: Valentine’s Day Giveaway

Sasha — Sat, 16 Feb 2013 20:46:48 -0000

YESS, this is Sasha! Sooo delighted to know that these online contest are real! So to all of the other doubters, try it next Time!

Re: Happy Valentine’s Day from St. Peter Black

askpeterblack — Fri, 15 Feb 2013 00:57:58 -0000

Thank you!

Re: Valentine’s Day Giveaway

Sasha — Thu, 14 Feb 2013 22:36:13 -0000

This year made for the day made for LOVE will be spent reminiscing on Valentines past. The year was 2004, hubby was at home and I was not in a good place with my paternal grandmother on her death bed. After, a heartaching day at the hospital, I returned home to a movie set made for LOVE created by non-other than my hubby. Candles, wine (Wedding reception stem-ware), sexy soulful jazz by Kenny G (I believe my son was conceived from that cassette), all of my favorite hor dourves including luscious chocolate berries, and the latest ensemble from Victoria (I prefer Freddie, but hey), at least $200 in roses (would have looked better in the form of apparel). This man set it out from the kitchen door to the bedroom, top to bottom (ohh Wee um 2mucchhh). He never spoke one word until the MAGIC MOMENT hitt!!!! This forum will not allow me to continue with the DETAILS!

Re: Happy Valentine’s Day from St. Peter Black

Sasha — Thu, 14 Feb 2013 22:17:53 -0000

GREAT perspective never looked at it in that light, thanks for the enlightenment!

Re: Valentine’s Day Giveaway

Mindy Elias — Thu, 14 Feb 2013 12:40:02 -0000

I'm spending the day delivering Valentines to my niece and nephews and trying to figure out who sent me roses yesterday anonymously :)

Re: Valentine’s Day Giveaway

Wen — Thu, 14 Feb 2013 05:00:27 -0000

hm... another stag here so I'm just going to work then back home to watch tv.

Re: Valentine’s Day Giveaway

alw6ys — Thu, 14 Feb 2013 03:55:36 -0000

well, no valentine's here so I figure it's just as good to treat myself (aka good excuse to eat chocolate day) ;)
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Re: Guest Post: The Secret to Hooking Up With Latin Men

truthseeker411 — Thu, 14 Feb 2013 00:20:30 -0000

Thank you for commenting! I'm sure Miranda would appreciate it!

Re: Guest Post: The Secret to Hooking Up With Latin Men

Socialkenny — Wed, 13 Feb 2013 22:35:27 -0000

It's so overrated when it's your race. Meaning, since you're a Latina, you most likely don't see what the hype is about with Latin men since you've most likely dated them.

However, for non Latinas,se quisieran enterar si sierve.

Re: Friends With Benefits vs Cut Buddies

truthseeker411 — Wed, 13 Feb 2013 03:33:25 -0000

So true! Thanks for your feedback!

Re: Friends With Benefits vs Cut Buddies

Twitch — Tue, 12 Feb 2013 03:14:26 -0000

The last four people I've been with has been a friends with benefits sort of gig, well one was a one night stand. Anyway, each one has ended in a mutual manner, minus the current one. If you're naturally a neutral person it shouldn't be hard when they end if, and if you're neutral, what do you care if things go on or not, something else will come along. If you're emotional, of course this can cause speedbumps. I'm a guy, and as a combination of both but more neutral, it's all good. Been with some interesting people, the most recent quite interesting, and I'm familiar with her profile of chick. Don't see many dudes with posts or responses on this. So for the dudes, if you care a tad more, maybe think a bit on if you will even stick around long enough, and if you're compatible. That's the oddity with my current gig. We click as friends no doubt, and the sex is interesting cuz shes quite inexperienced and awkward, but I find it adorable and as an opportunity. Can't predict how people with a dark past will react though, even if they trust you intimately. There's a random piece, hope it helps someone. Adios.

Re: Ask Peter Black Q & A 2-8-13

askpeterblack — Fri, 08 Feb 2013 17:06:48 -0000

Thanks for sharing your insight. I agree. I don't recommend being in a relationship for the sake of being in one. Love is love and nothing less.

Re: Ask Peter Black Q & A 2-8-13

Socialkenny — Fri, 08 Feb 2013 16:39:14 -0000

The "meant for each other" line threw me off in the sense that I don't believe in this theory of soul mate in other words. I think this' a poisonous mindset for men to have as pertains to dating.

It sort of ties into the question that the guy had asked about unhealthy love. I don't know if it's correct to even use the world unhealthy to describe problems in a relationship. We're all humans. Problems will be a part of everything.

And you basically touched on this as for love is love.